Praise. Praise for How We Love “How We Love has the capacity to change not only your marriage but every relationship that’s important in your life.”. How We Love has ratings and 99 reviews. In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory. How We Love. Milan and Kay Yerkovich explain why the ways you and your spouse relate to each other go back to before you even met. Drawing on the.

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Thanks for telling us about the problem. Would you like to create an account now? When looking for a marriage partner, they feel something missing with someone who does not have soul words to express the many emotions and thoughts inside.

Reading just the book will give someone a great step forward in understanding and even tiny amounts of application but the workbook is where the application really comes in, or so I am guessing.

I do encourage you to go online first and take the “How We Love Quiz”.

Jul 11, Pages. And I actually don’t know how I love. Mar 24, Kate Dunn rated it it was amazing. I was really comforted to learn that my particular struggles have a root somewhere, that the events and home dynamics that have shaped my unhealthy “core” pattern are actually shared by many of those who have the same love style as I do and most importantly, there is se for me!

I consider it essential reading personally and also for th ok as hoow us who are called to help people professionally.

How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage by Milan Yerkovich

I will definitely revisit this text again and again in the future. Jul 11, Pages Buy.

Rick Lowery and The Reverend Dr. Are you tired of falling into frustrating relational patterns in your marriage? They recommend doing the workbook along with the book, I didn’t as I checked out the book from the library.


Our love style is the way we approach yfrkovich. But the part I read ysrkovich revealing. For me that was refreshing to not have examples that stuck men and women in roles traditionally thought of but to show that man or woman is prone to any of the love styles. I wish my significant other would be more independent.

I am seriously considering purchase of the companion workbook, not because we are in crisis, but because when God shows you such an easily accessed concept to enrich your life and marriage in grace and love, why not? When a friend was describing its premise to me a few weeks ago I was intrigued. Although the subtitle references marriage, I think How We Love would be helpful jerkovich anyone, as our attachment style affects all of our relationships a This was a fascinating book.

I thought the examples and stories they gave helped flesh out the different ways in which the love styles manifest themselves.

In How We Love, relationship experts Milan hwo Kay Yerkovich help you pinpoint the reason your marriage is struggling—and they reveal exactly what you can do about it.

In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how you Identify the source of missteps in your marriage—and learn exactly what you can do about it! The book always went to childhood for why someone acted the way they did, and childhood does greatly affect a person, but there are many things that can effect a person.

Advice, tips, and insight for anyone in a lovd or hoping to be olve in their next relationship. Feb 02, Caleb Benadum rated it really liked it. The goal of this book is to grow deeper emotional intimacy and connection with your spouse through validation and genuine understanding of each other’s attachment style, as well as our own.

Dec 06, Kurt rated it it was amazing. Although the subtitle references marriage, I think How We Love would be helpful yerrkovich anyone, as our gerkovich style affects all of our relationships and learning about it can help us become more of a secure person with anyone, not just a spouse.

As a result, it does not occur to them to include others in the decision-making process. Nov 20, Nash rated it it was amazing.


This book is a key to a world of insight into intimacy only you can bring to your yrrkovich. We both highly encourage anyone who has been married longer than a few years to pick this one up.

My marriage is different today because of the simple, profound help I discovered in these pages. I think I can categorize myself as a vascillator, but more importantly, I’ve thought back through my life to try to understand where my reactions come from.

How We Love, Expanded Edition

There’s also an lovr workbook that you should get and work through with your spouse as well. It will help you as you read the book. I am thrilled that more couples will learn how to strengthen their relationships through the tools described in this book. Jan 20, Pages Buy. Read it Forward Read it first. I identified most closely with 2 of the styles which is one reason why I wanted to go back through and do the workbook as well. It is incredibly important. Changed in a Flash. Definitely will read it again.

The five styles are: For those of you who don’t like to read authors who are Christians still give this book a shot. I can’t recommend it enough! After fleshing out the love styles the Yerkovich’s then spend the remainder of the book helping the reader understand how to go about beginning to relate to others spouse, friends, etc – although they did phrase the remainder of the book in marriage terms but yerkovuch can easily transfer to all relationships through something they call the “comfort circle”.

Jan 20, Pages. There are many ideas that This book was recommended to me by a friend who is also a marriage and family therapist.